Get ready.. This is about to get heavy, I just settled all my lawsuits.. Fuck You Debbie!!
Ok, as we go down our Crossroads, we sometimes find ourselves in 'shitty' situations. Figurative and literal.
That's what this is about. Let us delve.
To start, I want to pick up on my last post regarding the 'honesty policy'. I was right, I think. There are just some things better left unsaid.
Recently, my guy was over. He was in the other room. I thought, (thought being the operative word) that it would be cute, to put some stock in being a 'nosy bitch'. So, as we trust each other, (so much) lolzz.. He left his phone in the living room..with me. Ummmm.. I looked at the phone, I looked away, I looked at the phone, I looked away.. and I picked up the phone. I started going thru his txt messages.. I found what I wasn't looking for. He HAD been seeing someone else. There was a crossover, in the crossroads.
Now, understand we had split up. Ross and Rachel bullshit, at its finest, coming up!
He started seeing someone else. We got back together. He, now had to get out of that, and cum back home. He did that. He stopped seeing her, he didn't want to be an 'azzhole'.. so he didn't totally cut off communication.. He was dwindling it down. He hadn't been to her place for weeks, they didn't speak on the phone. He had brought it to a txt message every few days.. and that's what I found.
I popped off.. (I didn't know the whole story, at the time..I should have just asked..CAUTION: RELATIONSHIPS ARE CLOSER THAN THEY APPEAR) He woke up to me, on the phone with her.. He was just like "What?".. and out the door.
He was NOT having any of that.
SIDEBAR:
Now, understand how close me and my guy are. This is where the 'shit' cums in.. We were fooling around.. Gettin down with the get down, as we ALWAYS do. Lawd! He is the BEST. In the midst of my cumming 90 times, we do some crazy 'shit'. Ladies, as we know.. sometimes a little finger in the azz is enjoyable during sex.. if done properly. He does it properly.
You see where this is going?
I actually shit on his hand.. (In my defense, it was not alot..like I have a defense..lmao!)
I was like ?? He said "Umm..".. he got up and washed his hand. He then went into the kitchen, and got a couple wet paper towels and came back into the bedroom. He said "I think you might want to clean that situation up." I was just like "OMG".. We never laughed so hard in our lives.
We laughed for hours. He was like "It's a shitty situation!" God, how we laughed..
So.. you see, how very close me and my guy are. Don't judge us!! LMAO!!
Back to the story..The OTHER story.
We didn't really talk that much for a couple of days. He was not wanting to hear me yell and question him, I really just wanted to talk to him. I had calmed down, at this point. I had spoken to the other woman for hours.. She was actually very nice, so was I. I was starting to put the pieces together. She knew who I was, he spoke of me. The love of his life. She knew about us. She knew when he left, he was never coming back. I just wanted it to have never happened at that point. I told him, "I'm not angry, I don't care.. I just want to forget it. I don't want to talk about it. Let's just move on." We did talk about it. He didn't want there to be any 'question marks' in my head. The only question in my head, was really 'Why did I do this?'
He said "If you had a question, if you thought something, you should have just asked me."
He was right.
I ended up hurting this girl, who never needed to know her suspicions were confirmed.
He was out of that, and back home. I didn't need to know she ever existed. Seriously. I didn't need to know. Yes, there was a 'crossover' where we were both in his world, while he was back with me, and getting out of that. That does suck. I do know and understand the whole situation, and we are very OK. It actually brought us closer together in a weird way.
The moral to this story is.. If you can shit on your mates hand, you can TALK to him/her. Maybe honesty IS the best policy?
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